We as women put so much pressure on ourselves to be physically perfect. I try my best to not have cellulite (which will never happen, no matter how hard I work….. it’s hereditary) and to have the perfect skin, healthiest hair, cutest most coordinated outfit. For some reason I got it in my head that this will show my husband how much I love him and prove to the world how valuable I am….? Instead of spending my time showing my husband how much he means to me by giving him my attention, I waste time looking up videos about the best skin products to have clear skin. Adults are just like children – they want attention. They don’t notice your perfectly picked out outfit. They notice how you make them feel. Show interest in them, ask them questions about their life or their thoughts – that’s what people relate to.
I need to show up for the ones I love and be the best version of me.
